Stop Kissin Me Mommy!

Age : 61 day

Love,

Mrs.K

I've Found My Hand!

Age : 61 day

He finally found his hand today without any help  =) 

Well done boy!

Love,

Mrs.K

Thaqif Boy At 2 Months

Love,

Mrs.K

Da-da-da-da-da-daaaaaaa

Love,

Mrs.K

While He Was Sleeping

Masa ni rasa macam, alahaiiiiiiiii~  

i have a son already?? ;)

p/s : nanti ade mase i'll update my experience giving birth under FPP kat Hospital Putrajaya ye? tak tau lah bile tu. But Dr.Hamidah rocks yaw!

Love,

Mrs.K

Motherhood

                                  

Ahhhhhhh, its been a while now. My baby boi is already 55days. Hes a bright and purrrfect lil fella. Alhamdulillah, i could not ask for more. Ade jaundice sikit mase hari ke 3,pastu my mom just jemur him under the sunlight, ala2 sunbathing gitu. His pusat tanggal masa hari ke-5, lega! Selagi tak tanggal selagi tu rase cam x best, nampak mcm sakit & x selesa je Thaqif boy. Owh btw, we named him Rizq Thaqif. Rizq: rezeki Thaqif: bijak & cepat faham. So far he is a fast learner. ;)

Pengalaman melahirkan baby memang sangat2 overwhelming, paling best bile baby dah keluar lepas tu doktor terus letak atas dada, masih panas, hot from the oven. I took epidural tho. Senang sikit nak push, i feel like im in control. Kalau ditanya would i want another baby? I'd say errrrrrrrrrrr nnnnnnnooo. But i plan to have 2 kids. Hubs also wanted at least 2 kids. But nursing an infant isnt an easy job to do. I have to think like million times. Not enough sleep, err i dun think i sleep but just napping, no quality me time, no quality date night because everytime we went out mesti asyik teringat kat thaqif boy. Walaupun my mom yg babysit him, but we felt so guilty because we didnt brought him along. The first 2 weeks after i gave birth was the most crucial period for me. I had my confinement at my moms' in ampang. K was on leave for 7 days stretch. After that he went back to our house in puchong. But he'll come and sleepover at my moms on alternate days and weekends. And everytime when K is not around, i feel so sad and down. Stressed with my body condition, stiches, breastfeeding, cracked and bleeding nipple, baby crying, lack of sleep, huge routines changes , confinement bla, bla, bla. I always cried when im in my room,alone. No one knows. One day, i cant take it anymore i cried in front of K. I feel like i have to take charge on everything but im so exhausted. I feel like im all alone. Padahal time tu my mom ade, K ade, my sister ade. Semua pon sama2 tolong. Tapi disebabkan hormone yg tak stabil ni i jadi mcm very depressed. Nasib baik lah K ade bace article pasal sindrom lepas bersalin and he did some research about it. So he try to pujuk me and told me that we're in this together. I have him and im not alone. After the third week, i'm a lot more stable and alive.Kalau tak rase mcm zombie je hari2. Nasib baiklah sindrom depressed tu tak lame, kalau tak boleh meroyan. Nauzubillah. Syukur lah dah lepas all that phase.

I was totally wrong. Dulu i tot jage baby kecik mcm senang je, rupenye jauh panggang dari api. Lol. Tapi ade bestnye jgak. Paling best bile baby sembang2, pastu senyum2, gelak2. Rase mcm berbaloi2! Thaqif ni baby yg cerdik and cepat faham, kene lah dgn name die. Owh and die cepat boring dan tersangatlah manja. Belum masuk dua bulan lagi dah pandai memilih orang. So clever this boy. Geram! I plan to upload some videos of him. Nantilah kalau ade mase. Maklumlah skarang ni nak update blog pon dah tak sempat semenjak ade Thaqif.

        

These 2 books really help me to understand my baby a lot more. Now we're talking to each other like nobody's business. Lol! Thanks to a friend of mine  who recommended me these books ;) lega sikit rasa. I think all new mothers should read it. It's very interesting and the author making it very enjoyable to read. Once you started read it, you'll be excited to finish it. But, being a new mom, mane ade masa sgt nak bace kan? mesti lebih pentingkan tido kan? hahaha..i totally understand. I read it before i went to bed, after i put Thaqif to sleep. At least 5 pages sekali baca pon dah okay. Tapi problemnya buku ni tersangat menarik, bile dah bace 5 pages mesti nak selak lagi ;P   Go get it, serious tak rugi. 


Here I quoted something from Secrets Of The Baby Whisperer. 

'Having a baby is by far the most life-changing event you'll ever experience -- bigger than marriage or a new job, or even the death of a loved one.' 

'Parenting is a tough, sometimes scary, constantly demanding, and often unrewarding job.'

- Tracy Hogg

P/s : personally i think all husband should do alot of reading about pre and post pregnancy too. Lebih senang nak faham wifey nanti. Mcm K, mule2 pon die ingat i mcm mengada2 nak nangis2 and stress. Itu sebelum he starts reading. Lepas die dah baca and ask some advice from a close cousin then he understand. So takdelah nak gaduh2 x tentu pasal, sbb masa dlm pantang tu mmg sangat2 mencabar. Mase ni lah kite nak lebih memahami each other and mase ni lah kite nak nampak how strong or weak your love towards each other. Barulah betul through thick and thin! ;)

Love,

Mrs.K

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The Grand Arrival Of Our Little Khalifa

      

Date of Birth: Friday, May 13th, 2011

Time of Birth: 6:48 PM

Labour: Vaginal delivery - epidural

Place of Birth: Klinik Pakar, Hospital Putrajaya

Obstetrician: Dr Hamidah

Birthweight: 2.80 kg Length: 47.0 cm

Head Circumference: 32.0 cm

Love,

Mrs.K

The Impromptu 'So-Called-Wishlist' Requested By My Sweet & Loving Family And Friends

Hola my dear family and friends. Okay, I have zero intention to put up my baby+mommy stuff wishlist on my blog or any other social networking. Nada!  But, since there's a lot of friends and family been asking me what's our wishlist and they want it to be in details, i guess i better do before alot more people asking. I don't wanna do a wishlist because i know baby+mommy stuff is so darn expensive. I dun wanna put any pressure to anyone. But...sigh, more than a person have requested me doing it. 

So here is the list, my dear family and friends. You ask for it, you got it...  :P

1. Medela Freestyle Breast Pump

or Medela Swing will do too...

 2. Philips Avent Food/Milk Warmer

                              

[OR]

3. Iiamo Self-Heating Feeding Bottle [preferably in green or white http://www.iiamo.com]

4. Tommee Tippee Insulated Bottle Bag







4.Baby Bjorn Baby Carrier [preferably in Green Energy or Red Heart or Black Diamond]

5. Philips AVENT Newborn Starter Set Honey Colour BPA Fre

6.Philips AVENT Electric Steam Steriliser

7. Fisher Price Jumperoo

8. Fisher Price Baby Bouncer

Again, this is just our personal wishlist. No forcing. 

For those who have been tagged. GOTCHA! hehe.. ;P

Love,

Mrs.K

The Talent That I Always Wanted...

Is to write music & song and play guitar & piano and sing it! I always berangan that me and Mr.K have this duo band and i sing he'll play guitar or piano and vise versa. And then when we have kids, our kids will also have the talent of singing and play instrument. We don't wanna go big, but low profile, just a homemade video, share it with people who appreciate music and talent. Berangan,berangan,berangan. Tak salah kan? Free je pon. Hihi..but who knows, right? =P

Let me share this video with you guys. I fell in love with boy, Aziz Harun. Uber talented! He's only 11 i think, started singing when was 8 or something.. Please just listen. You'll melt!

Love,

Mrs.K

I No Like Dis Waiting Game

Hola everyone. No, I haven't give birth yet. Still in the waiting game. I still have 5 more days til my EDD. My baby son is really taking his own sweet time in my tummy. He must really like it in there, the most comfy pad for him. Hehe. 

Went for another check up with Dr.Hamidah last Thursday. Did CTG scan, cuz i feel like my fetal movement is a bit slow, not as active as he was before. But his heartbeat is normal and healthy, sounds like a very strong healthy horse running. Baby is already engaged and Dr.Hamidah did checked on my vagina to see whether my cervix is already dilating or not but seinci pon serviks tak bukak lagi  :(  Nampaknye macam lame lagi lah nak kene tunggu. I plan for vaginal delivery, [well at least i really hope i can]. But if the cervix won't dilate at my 40th week, maybe i have to change my plan, which go for c-sect. I seriously don't want to be induce [force labor]. If i choose to be induce, and my cervix won't dilate [it happened couple of my friends], doctor will definitely cut your tummy, no turning back. So i've made my decision, i don't want to suffer twice. Just cut me open.

But in the meantime, i'm gonna wait til my EDD which is May 15th 2011, this upcoming Sunday. Although Dr.Hamidah said, i could wait till another 12 days, after the my EDD but, i don't think i can wait any longer. Unless if there's something wrong with his movement, then she suggest us to induce or go for c-sect. She does not want to take any risk. But as long as the baby is healthy in my tummy, i still can wait till 12 days after my due. So yeah, we'll see how. 

Last Sunday i experienced some mild contraction/Braxton Hicks every one hour from 12.30am til 4.15am. Then i fell asleep till 7.30 in the morning. But that night, i seriously and very confident that i will be labor the next day, but,but...my guess is wrong. Nothing happened the next morning. 

Now here i am, at home waiting for the big moment. 

p/s . going for the next check up this Friday. hopefully i'm dilating. :)

Love,

Mrs.K